martedì 20 maggio 2014

Parliamo digitando, leggiamo chattando

“Ho 422 amici, eppure sono solo.
Parlo con loro ogni giorno ma nessuno mi conosce. 

Il mio problema è la differenza tra il guardare nei loro occhi o un nome sullo schermo. Quei media che chiamiamo ‘social’ sono tutto fuorché social. Tutta questa tecnologia è solo un’ illusione. Comunità, solidarietà, spirito di gruppo…ma quando ti allontani da questa delusione ti svegli e vedi un mondo di confusione. 

Un mondo in cui siamo schiavi della tecnologia che abbiamo creato. In cui tutti condividiamo le nostre parti migliori, lasciando fuori l’emozione. Quando siete in pubblico e vi sentite soli, mani dietro la testa e lontani dal telefono,imparate a coesistere. Stiamo diventando asociali. siamo circondati da bambini che fin dalla nascita ci vedono vivere come robot e pensano sia normale. 
Ora i parchi sono vuoti. Non ci sono bambini, le altalene non dondolano. 

Non guardate il telefono, spegnete i display, esplorate i dintorni, approfittate della giornata. Basta solo un incontro per fare la differenza. Sei sei troppo impegnato a guardare in basso,non vedrai l’opportunità che perdi. Anch’io sono colpevole e faccio parte del sistema, di questo mondo digitale,in cui ci vedono ma non ci sentono. Parliamo digitando, leggiamo chattando. Passiamo ore insieme senza guardarci negli occhi. Non arrendetevi a questa vita. 

Date amore alla gente, non i vostri ‘mi piace’.”... ..

I have 422 friends, yet I am lonely.
I speak to all of them everyday, yet none of them really know me.

The problem I have sits in the spaces between,
looking into their eyes, or at a name on a screen.

I took a step back, and opened my eyes,
I looked around, and then realised
that this media we call social, is anything but
when we open our computers, and it’s our doors we shut.

All this technology we have, it’s just an illusion,
of community, companionship, a sense of inclusion
yet when you step away from this device of delusion,
you awaken to see, a world of confusion.
A world where we’re slaves to the technology we mastered,
where our information gets sold by some rich greedy bastard.
A world of self-interest, self-image, self-promotion,
where we share all our best bits, but leave out the emotion.

We are at our most happy with an experience we share,
but is it the same if no one is there.
Be there for you friends, and they’ll be there too,
but no one will be, if a group message will do.

We edit and exaggerate, we crave adulation,
we pretend we don’t notice the social isolation.
We put our words into order, until our lives are glistening,
we don’t even know if anyone is listening.

Being alone isn’t the problem, let me just emphasize,
that if you read a book, paint a picture, or do some exercise,
you are being productive, and present, not reserved or recluse,
you’re being awake and attentive, and putting your time to good use.

So when you’re in public, and you start to feel alone,
put your hands behind your head, and step away from the phone.
You don’t need to stare at your menu, or at your contact list,
just talk to one another, and learn to co-exist.

I can’t stand to hear the silence, of a busy commuter train,
when no one wants to talk through the fear of looking insane.
We’re becoming unsocial, it no longer satisfies
to engage with one another, and look into someone’s eyes.

We’re surrounded by children, who since they were born,
watch us living like robots, and think it’s the norm.
It’s not very likely you will make world’s greatest dad,
if you cant entertain a child without a using an iPad.

When I was a child, I would never be home,
I’d be out with my friends, on our bikes we would roam.
We’d ware holes in our trainers, and graze up our knees;
we’d build our own clubhouse, high up in the trees.

Now the parks are so quiet, it gives me a chill
to see no children outside and the swings hanging still.
There’s no skipping or hopscotch, no church and no steeple,
we’re a generation of idiots, smart phones and dumb people.

So look up from your phone, shut down that display,
take in your surroundings, and make the most of today.
Just one real connection is all it can take,
to show you the difference that being there can make.
Be there in the moment, when she gives you the look,
that you remember forever, as when love overtook.
The time you first hold her hand, or first kiss her lips,
the time you first disagree, but still love her to bits.

The time you don’t need to tell hundreds, about what you’ve just done,
because you want to share the moment, with just this one.
The time you sell your computer, so you can buy a ring,
for the girl of your dreams, who is now the real thing.
The time you want to start a family, and the moment when,
you first hold your baby girl, and get to fall in love again.
The time she keeps you up at night, and all you want is rest,
and the time you wipe away the tears, as your baby flees the nest.

The time your little girl returns, with a boy for you to hold,
and the day he calls you granddad, and makes you feel real old
The time you take in all you’ve made, just by giving life attention,
and how your glad you didn’t waste it, by looking down at some invention.

The time you hold your wife’s hand, and sit down beside her bed
you tell her that you love her, and lay a kiss upon her head.
She then whispers to you quietly, as her heart gives a final beat,
that she’s lucky she got stopped, by that lost boy in the street.
But none of these times ever happened, you never had any of this,
When you’re too busy looking down, you don’t see the chances you miss.

So look up from your phone, shut down those displays,
we have a finite existence, a set number of days.
Why waste all our time getting caught in the net,
as when the end comes, nothing’s worse than regret.

I am guilty too, of being part of this machine,
this digital world, where we are heard but not seen.
Where we type and don’t talk, where we read as we chat,
where we spend hours together, without making eye contact.

Don’t give in to a life where you follow the hype,
give people your love, don’t give them your like.
Disconnect from the need to be heard and defined
Go out into the world, leave distractions behind.
Look up from your phone, shut down that display,
stop watching this video, live life the real way.
Gary Turk

Un video che dice tutto. Un ragazzo. Racconta la realtà di noi oggi. È ovvio che la tecnologia abbia rivoluzionato le nostre vite, ma non sempre in positivo. Non si può stendere un velo pietoso su piaghe sociali come il cyberbullismo, l’isolamento sociale e via così. In particolare i più giovani si creano una vita virtuale,parallela a quella reale. Tutto ciò senza che i genitori sappiano, reputano normale che un adolescente passi un tempo spropositato su internet. Ma davvero questo può essere definito ‘ordinario’? No, senza dubbio, perché quella che è abitudine può trasformarsi in dipendenza,non solo personale ma collettiva. Apriamo gli occhi. Guardiamoci. Che non è mai troppo tardi per farsi sorprendere dalla vita stessa.

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